Why Doesn't My Wife Want to Have Sex?

By Calle Zorro

EVERYBODY is turned off by the notion of somebody using them. NOBODY wants to be manipulated by someone else who's trying to benefit themselves but not you.

Given this, I want to give you a counter-example that just might help a whole lot of men in their marriage and sex-life.

Imagine that you just recently married...imagine that you're a reasonable, practical, logical sort of fellow...imagine that you've got one more year in college...imagine that money is in VERY short supply...imagine that the two of you both work evening jobs...imagine that the two of you are living in a not-so-pleasant apartment complex, a place where plenty of society's dark side resides...and your new wife is obsessed about getting pregnant and having a baby...so much so that every time you turn around, she's trying to get you to "get her pregnant"...every time there's a lull in work activity, she's pestering you to have sex with her...and when you do have sex, she's not the least bit interested in whether she feels any pleasure, she just wants you to hurry up and ejaculate...and after you ejaculate, she wants you to help prop pillows up under her backside so it's easier for the "sperm" to swim to their destination.

Now, really imagine yourself being in this situation...and as you imagine it...

Notice how you don't feel like you can trust your wife - how your gut tells you her motives aren't 100% honest.

Notice how she thinks only of what she wants and is oblivious to the life-long impact it will have on you.

Notice how one-sided things feel.

Notice how your wife gives no indication that she really cares about you, your interests, or your desires.

Notice how you'd really like to have sex - notice how your wife really could be such an attractive lady - EXCEPT this obsessive, selfish drive of hers to get pregnant at a most inopportune time is killing your desire towards her.

Notice how she's engaging you - not because she cares about your needs - but because she wants something from you.

Notice how she gives no consideration for timing or appropriateness - she just wants what she wants without regard to what works for you.

Notice how she hasn't bothered asking you what you might want - she's too concerned with what she wants.

Notice how irritating it is that your wife is constantly hounding you to have sex with her so she can get pregnant - and how her constant nagging on this point is like the biggest turn-off in the world.

Notice how the whole ordeal is such a huge turn-off to you and the automatic resistance to having sex with your wife.

Can you feel the feelings I'm describing?

Can you hear her nerve-grating nagging to get pregnant?

Can you look at her and see how repulsive her selfish neediness is to you?

If you can, then you have a good take on what most women feel, hear, and see in relation to their husband and his incessant desire for sex.

It's not that she doesn't want sex too. She absolutely does.

She just doesn't want it in the way he's trying to engage her in it.

So, if your wife doesn't want to have sex, try engaging her in a way that values her as a person. Try engaging her in a way that shows consideration for her wants and needs. In doing so, BOTH of you can "score".

Copyright 2009, Article by Calle Zorro of NymphomaniacWife.com. Permission is granted to reprint this article ONLY if a resource box pointing to the following websites is included with it.

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Modern Women - Meeting Her Sexual Pleasures

By Neal Stirling

Times are rapidly changing and still most men are clueless about how to please a woman. Yet women's sexual pleasures are no different now than they were 50 years ago. The only thing that has changed is the way women express themselves.

In this article, you will learn more about the modern woman and how you can meet her sexual pleasures. You can follow these love tips:

Tip #1: Listen to Her Needs

The modern woman is more vocal than women in previous generations. Recently, more effort is put into understanding the female orgasm. The same goes for understanding sexual pleasures of females.

So, how to please women? Listen to her feedback.

It will make her trust you more if she sees that you are listening to her needs. This will help her relax too. A relaxed lover makes the best lover.

Tip #2: It Takes Two

It takes two to have a truly enjoyable sex. Usually, the male orgasm has been given more attention than the female orgasm. As a consequence, modern surveys have showed that a very big portion of the female population never get an orgasm during sex with their partner. It's a shame really because the power is in their hands.

What can you do to change this? Simply openly express to her how important her orgasm is also. While in bed, you can always try to give her an orgasm before you have one. Remember that women usually do not need a period of "rest" between orgasms like men do.

So if she has her orgasm, but you haven't it doesn't mean the action has to stop!

There is medical proof that says that orgasms help release tension. So if you give her orgasms like this, she will enjoy the whole experience even more. She will be eager to have sex more often.

Hi, my name is Neal Stirling. Few years ago, a good friend handed me an odd-looking book written about female orgasms. This book contains unconventional principles that have literally changed my life.

I have decided to share this book with you, because I don't want you to get stuck with figuring women out. Trust me; this can take you almost forever. If your partner is complaining about not receiving enough orgasms, then this might be the book that could save your relationship.

But I have to warn you, this female orgasm book is not suitable for everybody. If you are not prepared to have women showering you with attention and sticking closely to you, I suggest that you let someone else have this book.

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Sexual Compatibility

By Enid Vien

Today, although sex education is more widespread, little is taught about sexual compatibility. Unless one is promiscuous (generally considered a poor choice), how can one find out what sexual compatibility means and how does one know what one will like or dislike?

These are tough questions, but let me pose a counter question: what is harder, getting better at physical intimacy or personal intimacy? The answers, other than the purely physical considerations of size and fit, are mainly found in the subject of communication. Sometimes people have sex rather than face the difficulties in their relationship. Sex, in its most enjoyable and satisfying form is after all, a communication, an expression of love. Sometimes sharing your more intimate thoughts and feelings take more courage than sharing your body. Sex may temporarily solve a problem, but does not solve deeper intimate issues.

Romantic love often washes up on the rocky shore of sexual incompatibility. In years of working with people on the subject of relationships it's been observed that sexual involvement sometimes covers up problems that don't surface until the romance starts to fade. Once the romance is over you're left with someone you may not really know. Sometimes in desperation a relationship may be about to end and sex is used to try and reconnect the two people together. This reconnection is usually only physical and temporary. It will not change the real deeper issues, but will only cover them up with feelings and desires. Romantic warm fuzzy feelings alone are not a foundation for a lasting relationship.

Communication is a major factor, not just in considering sexual compatibility, but in any form of compatibility, whether it is personal or business one must understand the components that make up good communication.

What are some of those components?
(I'll list a few here);
Presence
Intention
Listening
Empathy
Affinity
Dynamis {Life Energy}

Communication is a two-way street. No where is this more true than in compatibility. Sometimes you may hear people say that their sex life "sucks". Maybe the sexual act isn't the problem, but in looking closer you may find there has been an emotional disconnect. The communication lines have been jammed or blocked thus preventing any real communication or growth. Most of the time the problems that arise when examined can be easily handled and trust and understanding can be restored.

Sex, life, and work are all more enjoyable when you and your partner are communicating effectively.

Enid Vien is the founder of the Dynamism Institute. She is known around the world for her work as a philosopher and Dynamis Clearing Practitioner. She has worked with some of the top business,political and entrepreneurial professionals to achieve results in good and bad times. Bringing out the best in people has been a lifetime work for Enid Vien and her staff of Dynamis Clearing Practitioners. To learn more about Dynamis Clearing and it's programs go to http://www.dynamism.org

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True Colors: Grading Spray-Tan Salons

• JUNE 25, 2009

By GWENDOLYN BOUNDS

With heavy rainfall blanketing much of the country this month, Old Sol hasn’t exactly been cooperating on the suntan front. So we decided to give Mother Nature a little help—via a professional spray tan.

Spray-tanning technology has come a long way from its decade-old beginnings when people often complained of orange skin tones and short-lived, splotchy and sometimes smelly results. Our four female testers—most of whom were spray-tan first-timers—mostly found the fake tans looked natural and didn’t start fading until around day five, though some of us had discoloration on the hands and feet. And while we noticed our newly sprayed skin in some cases gave off a caramel or coconut scent, it wasn’t unpleasant and nobody else seemed to notice.

Many salons offer customized airbrush spraying by hand. Tanners can request six-pack abs, defined deltoids or other flattering features sculpted into their figure. One of our testers gave airbrushing a whirl, though she declined the ab upgrade. The other testers opted for the spray-booth process, which costs about $25 to $45. Tanners stand naked or swim-suited in the booth while an automated machine sprays a fine, cool mist across the body. The process takes about one to two minutes.

The four companies whose salons we tested included:>>>

Read This Article Before Buying a Sex Pill

By Ajeet Gautam

Ayurvedic herbs as we know have been used for centuries by men in treating their sexual problems even Kamasutra texts have listed ayurvedic aphrodisiacs to enhance sexual pleasure. In this article we are going to list and discuss some of these ayurvedic herbs which have been found very useful in curing sex related problems and an effective sex pill should have these as ingredients.

Ashwagandha- Withania Somnifera

Ashwagandha means power of ten horses this herb has been referred in ancient kamasutra texts to increase sexual pleasure by increasing semen volume and helping in having intense orgasms. It is one of the most effective herbs in entire herbal kingdom. If you ever try a herbal pill for sex enhancement always look for ashwagandha as one of the active ingredients in it.

Shilajit

Shilajit is one such herb which has many medicinal uses. It is helpful in diabetes, sexual problems, and is actively used as an anti aging drug. It is very helpful in improving the quality of sperm.

Gokshura- Tribulus Terrestris

This ayurvedic herb helps in improved sex and is a mood enhancer. The active constituents in gokshura help in increasing testosterone levels which are helpful in having firm erections and increasing sperm count.

Safed Musli- Asparagus Adscendens

Safed musli is a very popular aphrodisiac used in India since ancient times. It rejuvenated the sexual functions and makes one feel like a youth in bed.

Ginger

Ginger is a multiple use herb which has been used to lower blood pressure improve appetite and it also helps in other herbs work more rigorously thereby assisting in overall health.

These were some of the important herbs in enhancing your sexual pleasure. If you look to try herbal pills for prolong sex look for the ingredients and if it has one or some of these herbs it surely will help in eliminating your sexual concerns.

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Fool Proof Tips on How to Make Love to a Man

By Pekkie Aon

Wondering how to make love to a man so that you can drive him crazy with desire? Start off with these points:

• For men, it ALWAYS starts off with the eyes. So, next time you think he's seen it all, think again. Invest in some sexy lingerie or dress up as his favorite dream character and you will have the boat rocking in no time!

• You always get to hear about how foreplay is important for women. Well, it is very important for men too. It will decide how long he can keep his erection and how intense an orgasm he can get. Did you know that you can get him to have repeated orgasms without ejaculating? The trick is to keep stimulating him so that he climaxes, but stopping right before you feel he is about to ejaculate. In this way, you can continuously get him to climax and then lead him on to one mind blowing ejaculation.

• You can stimulate him in a number of ways. Remember, the penis is a wonderfully sensuous area. The place where the foreskin attaches to the shaft is especially sensitive. Try massaging the area for a quick arousal.

• Another advantage of this technique is that you can give him multiple orgasms within a short span of time. Remember, a man may not be able to ejaculate many times in a day, but he can have multiple orgasms without this. In fact, some men swear that the feelings they get without ejaculating is at least half as powerful as those they get when they are ejaculating!

• Of course, the intensity of his pleasures will increase when he ejaculates more. You need to keep him aroused for a sufficiently long time so that when he comes, his fluids are all packed up and ready to go!

Now that you know all about how to make love to a man, get adventurous- you will be suitably rewarded!

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Pheromones Can Improve Your Love Life - Truth Or Just Hype?

By Jim Navary

If you spend any time at all searching for tips on improving your ability to meet and attract the opposite sex, you are sure to encounter plenty of advertisements for products containing human pheromones. Do these product claims have any truth behind them or are they just pure hype?

Pheromones are basically invisible chemical messengers that are detected by a specialized organ known as the Vomeronasal Organ (VNO for short). Although the VNO is located in the nose, pheromones themselves have no actual odor. Some describe it as a "sixth sense" used to communicate unspoken messages with others.

Undeniably, the air is loaded with secrets - intimate messages both unseen and unheard. Although it is widely accepted that pheromones affect the behavior of many species, some scientists still express doubt about their impact on human behavior. Yet others firmly believe that pheromones play a major role in mate selection.

Research into human pheromones has been going on for several decades. Many reputable and credible scientific studies that have been performed validate the role of pheromones in mating behavior and as a driving force behind sexual attraction."Chemistry" between people may indeed be a literal truth.

The mainstream media have reported extensively on the power of pheromones as natural sexual attractants. An article on WebMD cited a study which documented the sexual activity of a number of young to middle-aged heterosexual men while using pheromones. The results of the study showed that users of pheromones had:

• increased frequency of informal dates
• increased frequency of affectionate gestures
• increased frequency of sleeping next to a romantic partner
• increased frequency of foreplay
• increased frequency of sexual intercourse

Pheromones have been prominently featured on CNN, ABC, 20/20 and Hardcopy while numerous articles have been published in medical journals, newspapers and dozens of magazines.

Although the body emits pheromones naturally, the effect they have can be limited by modern social customs. During man's primitive days, hygiene practices such as daily showering, the use of deodorants, skin creams, and, of course, clothing were limited or non-existent. These days we make ourselves socially acceptable through these practices. The result is that we suppress our natural pheromone effectiveness. Adding an external pheromone should significantly increase your chances of attracting a mate.

In conclusion, pheromones do seem to influence the likelihood of and the frequency with which we have sex as well as with whom. However, using pheromone products cannot, by themselves, guarantee sexual attraction. Obnoxious behavior and bad personal hygiene simply cannot be overcome by pheromones. However, for the average guy or gal with common sense, the right product may be just what is needed to help bring that special person into your life.

Jim Navary has been a freelance writer and researcher for over thirty years covering a wide range of topics. Additional information about pheromones and links to recommended pheromone products can be found by clicking here.

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